âŚâŚSaturday.. Weekend ⌠but no enthusiasmâŚ.no plans of how we
are gonna spend these two daysâŚ
My home is filled with lot of mess, many vessels to wash in
kitchen and even my mailbox is filled with scrap. I started reading some mails
that were pending in my inbox and is an easy thing to do early morning.
One mail intrigued me very much. It is about clearing out
the clutter. I read the article posted by Mr. Arvind Devalia, a Philanthropist.
It was nice and motivated.
Then I thought it is a good idea to start with.
Oh god! I would have cleaned on daily basisâŚ.itâs tough
doing in weekly basis.
I started clearing unused &old clothes from wardrobes of
my bedroom one by one. I startled at one shirt, which was gifted by my best
friend without knowing whether it fits me, I never wore it until date, as it is
XL size formal shirt but just kept as a remembrance.
I tied all unused clothes in a box and kept aside. I called
Amit to look after other stuff in the bedroom. He entered into the room
irritatinglyâŚ.shouting âwhat the hell is happening over here?â Why all of a
sudden started cleaning?
Every husband says these usual dialogues. So no worries.
I got one of your girlfriends gift lying in that cupboard.
Check it and if not required let me know, I said.
Oh! Is it?
YesâŚ
Why are you sooo excited about it suddenly? You were saying something
like hell, cleaning etc? I said.
Nothing yaar, just like that âŚpls donât mind..
First tell me where is my girlfriends present?
I said, check in that cupboard. Hope u will get itâŚ
Amit started searching for a while and didnât findâŚ
while doing so, he throwed all the things from cupboard on to the floorâŚ
Where is it Anu? I didnât find.
Ha haaâŚThank youâŚ
Why thanks ? Said Amit..
Actually I called you to remove the stuff in those cupboards
as I am tired and you did itâŚ
If I ask politely u never doâŚ.so I did this way..ha ha..
YouuuâŚ..
Okay okay ..itâs in the prayer roomâŚUr girlfriend gave âLord
Shree Krishnaâsâ idol .isnât it?
I already kept it in prayer room. Pls check it..
Is there anything else you found? asked Amit.
I said so far nothingâŚ
Oh Okay .I thought you might have found my girlfriendâs love
letter, which I kept safely .He, said quietly with chuckle on his face and left
the room.
Hmm ⌠is it? Then clean the other room, you may find it.
Slowly I finished clearing all the old stuff and finally cleaned
everything.
I felt very tired and took a short break in between.
Thinking what next?
I remembered Mr.Arvind Devaliaâs lines: âClutter is not just
those physical things hoarded for years.It includes time commitments and other
things that use up more of your energy than you can afford to give them.â
Umm..
(Thinking whom I spoke with in past few days..)
Yes, got it.I promised my friend Manasa who is staying in US
that I will give a call to her today.
Here I would like to say that BUSY is the only word always
tries to keep you away from your friends, family and well-wishers.
I hate saying BUSY to my people who are close to me.
I faced these situations titled âBUSYâ.
Recently I had been to India for Diwali. And I telephoned
almost all of my friends about my arrival to Bangalore and conveyed my Diwali
Wishes. However, I missed phoning my friend Kalpana.
On the last day while leaving to Oman, I remembered her and messaged
her saying, âI was busy all the time and am sorry for not calling you when I
was in Bangaloreâ. Though she did not say anything, I felt very bad for that. And
I took an oath that I never forget contacting my friends though I am busy.
âDonât promise or say a word
when you canât stand on it.â
I telephoned ManasaâŚtring..tringâŚ..
Hey Manasa! How are you? See I said that today I will call
and I called youâŚ
Yes Anu. I am very happy. Today is my daughterâs Birthday. I
want you to wish on her Bâday.
Oh thanks dear for remembering me on this occasion.
Next year onwards, without missing I will give a call to her.
I said.
Okay dear. She said.
I felt very happy
that I called her on timeâŚ.If I phone her the next day, then the purpose of calling
would have failed.
So always, stand on your commitments .And try to achieve most
of them if not allâŚ..And see the differenceâŚ
If you are unable to remember the things which you said you
will do for yourself or for others, just write on a sticky note and put it on
ur desk, computer, book etc ..
By following this for some days, you will feel the change, positive
energy flows in your life and confidence level improves.
Also, one will have good bonding with their people. Just try
it today and see the transformation.
If there are any problems in friendshipsâŚ.just ring them up
and clear the things. If it is not being cleared, at least will have a
satisfaction that we tried our best from our end .
Cleaning your pile of mess in all respects keeps you
energized âŚ
âStart Clearing out the Clutter in your LivesâŚand live a clean life..â