DON'T PROMISE ANYTHING IF YOU CAN'T KEEP YOUR PROMISE

 I come across a beautiful story reminding us of the importance of a PROMISE. 

                                          Source: Face book post by' The meaning of life'

Carry Your Own Cross

 "Anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. - Matthew 10:38"

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Every religion has many symbols. Symbolism and mysticism are a fundamental part of every religion. A symbol has a deep-rooted message to teach: "the cross" in Christianity, "om" in Hinduism, "the wheel" in Buddhism and the "crescent moon and star" in Islam. These symbols teach the followers of different religious paths how to perceive truth, reality and soul.

There might be many meanings of the cross as per many scriptures. I just came across one, and I was intrigued by the meaning of the cross in Christianity. I truly loved understanding it.

Jesus urged his followers to deny themselves, to take up their crosses and follow him, long before he was crucified. This is his greatest teaching of mankind, and the real meaning of the cross.

Jesus was an enlightened master. Jesus taught his followers to be free from EGO by denying their 'SELF'.

"Anyone who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me.": Means remove your ego and follow the God towards the journey of enlightenment.

The real meaning of the cross is to cross out the ego. Ego (I) blocks the door to truth, understanding and knowledge.

In the cross, there are two bars, the first is vertical and the other is horizontal. The long vertical bar is the symbol of ego, and the horizontal bar is hidden message to eliminate ego. Only by crushing ego can we follow the teachings of Jesus.

In my thought process, I understood it this way:

I trekked to Mount Everest Base Camp, the base camp of the highest mountain on Earth. Here, I was showing my pride that I had reached there. However, the fact is that I didn’t reach there alone, yet I was showing that I did it by myself. This is the vertical bar in the Cross.

Now, I will put it this way, “I trekked to Mount Everest Base Camp with my team of 20 people, led by Lt Col. Romel Barthwal, and we reached successfully with God’s grace.”

Here, I am humble, and I have crossed my ego (I) by giving due respect to the team and my leader. This is the horizontal bar in the cross which I crossed + with my humility.



Disclaimer: Example written here is entirely the point of view of my understanding of the concept.

Book reference: The Torah, the Bible and Kriya Yoga by Paramahamsa Prajnanananda

One life touches 80,000 people in one lifetime

 

It is said that you (one life) meet about 80,000 people in a lifetime.

When I first heard this, I was like is it true?? How is it possible?? It’s really hard to believe.

Then, I started calculating but couldn’t be able to reach at least one fourth of this figure.


Let’s say,

A minute of interaction with a car driver in an Uber.

A few minutes of thanking someone with a smile for opening a door for you or for any random act of kindness.

Saying Hello to a stranger or spending some time talking with a fellow traveller in a flight etc

Little more time in our School and college with friends, teachers etc, in Office with colleagues...

More tenure with our parents, spouses and our children and their friends, friend's parents etc

As I travel quite frequently, I think I might have touched some 5,000 to 10,000 lives though I am not sure.

What about the balance 70,000?? I don’t have any idea how, where and when I am gonna meet but one thing is sure that when I meet people either I learn something from them, or I will inspire them with my journey of my life.

What about celebrities? They might have touched many lives based on their profession. Isn’t it??

So, it is understood that depends on people’s place where they are living / which profession they are in etc contributes to achieving this number I guess!!!

Instead of counting and analysing this huge number, let us think this way:

What if we encounter a person in our life who changes our path completely, leading us to touch many lives? For example, a motivational talk by a person to a crowd of thousands of people may inspire them or what if one simple and adventurous story of ours inspires at least one person, and multiplies by spreading to many through word-of-mouth, this too helps in reaching this number, doesn’t it?

Whether the concept of meeting 80,000 people in one lifetime is true or not, it’s worth pondering!

IKIGAI

 IKIGAI - Pursuing one's Ikigai is a journey of self-discovery that involves understanding one's passions, strengths and the needs of the world.

Ikigai - is a Japanese concept that refers to a sense of purpose and meaning in life. It is a combination of two words: "iki", which means "life," and "gai", which translates to "value" or "worth." Together, ikigai can be loosely translated as "the reason for being" or "the reason to live."

The concept of ikigai centers around finding and pursuing a balance between four fundamental elements:

1. Passion (Your Love): This is what you love to do, what brings you joy, and what excites you. It's the activity that makes you feel fulfilled and energized.
2. Mission (Your Mission): This is what the world needs, something that you feel is your duty or calling to contribute to society or others in some way.
3. Vocation (Your Profession): This refers to what you are good at, your skills, and what you can get paid for.
4. Profession (Your Vocation): This represents what the world will pay you for; it's your means of making a living.

(A) Passion: Finding what you love to do

• What activities have brought you joy since childhood?
• Which tasks make you lose track of time because you’re so engrossed?

(B) Vocation: Finding what you’re good at

• What are your natural talents and strengths?
• What do people often turn to you for because you excel at it?

(C) Mission: Defining what the world needs

• What societal issues or causes deeply affect you?
• What matters to you on a global or local scale?

(D) Profession: Defining what you can do as a profession

• Can you offer valuable services or create products people would want?
• Is there a job you excel at that could easily become your profession?

When these four elements intersect, it is said that you have found your ikigai – that special convergence of passion, mission, vocation, and profession. Discovering and living in alignment with your ikigai can lead to a sense of fulfilment, happiness, and overall well-being.

The concept of ikigai has gained popularity beyond Japan and has been embraced by people seeking a deeper understanding of their life's purpose and seeking more meaning in their daily existence. It encourages individuals to reflect on their values, interests, skills, and the impact they want to have on the world to find a path that aligns with their true calling.

Practically speaking after finding our IKIGAI many of us will not choose or afraid of choosing due to various social commitments, peer pressure, family obligations. It's natural to be afraid but at least we should be aware of this. If life gives us a chance of what we can do we must pursue  IKIGAI for a sustainable happiness. We must have a target in mind, things which we will aspire to, let’s began the journey by knowing and answering the tough question!