Thursday, 12 December 2019

Discipline is the Secret to fruitful life


Picture source -https://flintobox.com/

Krishna was a fifth grade student, he was a nice boy, good at studies and sports. However, he had one bad habit i.e waking up late in the morning and doing his daily chores. Every day in the morning, his mother used to wake him up at 6 ‘o’ clock as the school bus will arrive in front of the building by 7 AM. One day, after pestering and pampering, Krishna woke up reluctantly at 6.40 AM and started getting ready in a rush , in the meanwhile bus driver started honking  in front of the house at around 6.55 AM. Mother requested the bus driver to wait ten more minutes Shouting from the Balcony and helped Krishna pack his bag, lunch box, wear uniform and boarded him the bus. Bus driver as usual used to comment and preach her to be on time whenever Krishna was late to board the bus, today it was no different day either.


After waving off his son Mother thought, ‘I cannot take this anymore, it’s so tiresome and this is the time to teach Krishna a lesson’. But since she was a loving mother she was puzzled as she didn’t wanted a punishment mode lesson which will not have a lasting effect on the mind of child. She decided something and gave a quirky smile.

In the evening when Krishna came from School, she asked him to get freshen up, have some refreshment and   complete his school homework. Krishna Said - Mother,’ I want to play with my friend’s downstairs’.

‘Krishna please do what I said.’ Mother screamed from the Kitchen. But, Krishna didn’t paid attention to mothers words and left to play.

Mother knew that it’s going to happen and decided for implementing solution for this problem.

Krishna came home after his play and asked mother to feed him food.

Krishna you are a big boy now, you need to learn to do all your jobs independently which includes having the food also.

Krishna was at his best in emotional blackmail with moist eyes Hmm.. Mother please. I will listen to you , tell me whatever you say, I will do, but please feed with your hands.  Motherly love took over and now she cannot resist to her son’s demand.

Mother Said - Hmm. Okay Krishna, then go and freshen up, drink water, finish your homework and then I will feed you.

Deal?

Hmm.. it takes so much time mother. Please feed me first then I will do.

Hmm..You are good at trading Krishna!

Ok then go freshen up and come to the dining table, I will feed you.

Krishna came in pajamas and started banging on the dining table with spoons. I Am waiting!

Mother can you please tell me a story while feeding?

Hmm.. she mixed rice and dal with clarified butter(ghee), an Indian traditional food in any household, narrating the story of jungle book  she made shapes of Mowgli, sherkhan, bageera , Bhalu etc and fed Krishna.

I love you so much Mother! Krishna was elated with the sense of joy, he was loving the new experience

Hmm.. Homework? Mother asked softly with a demanding voice

Krishna immediately did his homework and slept on his bed.

This continues for a week and Krishna got used to listen to Mothers stories and once the dinner time was set she shifted the story time just before the bed.

Krishna became so fascinated to mothers variety of stories and eventually goes to bed on time eager to listen to the story every day.

Krishna’s father asked Mother,’ How this change had happened without any shouting, threatening or pampering?

“It’s simple. I was telling him a story whose end will follow the next day i.e the secrets and suspense of the story will be revealed the next day bed time and so he has to wait for one full day to know what happened.” Mother said with a sense of proud and glittering eyes.

Krishna also told me that he was sharing the story to his friends and they all are happy and eager to listen.” Mother explained with a sense of achievement.

By sleeping early at night, Krishna started waking up early in the morning at 6:15 AM and completes his daily chores before time and waits for bus in front of the building. The bus driver was shocked to observe this change.
“Staying with your goal for a period of twenty one days and performing the new activity at the same time for each of these days, will insert it into your routine.” – Robin Sharma

This is how Krishna's mother brought him in Discipline☺

“Discipline is the secret to fruitful life” –quoted by Someone

Saturday, 7 December 2019

My Friend, A Farmer



In our life, we meet many people and every acquaintance will teach us something.
Someone had rightly said, ' We don’t meet people by accident. They are meant to cross our paths for a reason. I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason.’

I am so fortunate to have a friend who instilled me to pursue one’s own dreams no matter what.

A person who left his techie job in Swiss-Swedish multinational corporation ABB in Bangalore to pursue his dream which demands complete hard core physical work and no return on investment for at least a year or more. Taking such a bold step is not an easy thing for a family man but my friend Harsha does became A FARMER!

Harsha used to come to Jharsuguda, Odisha, India for testing and commissioning purposes of Rectifiers/Transformers. As I work for the same project, we get to know each other and became good friends in a short period of time.

I was shocked when he said, he is pursuing his dream of Farming but when I saw his pictures which sent to me, I was like completely taken aback.




Before leaving job in ABB






HARSHA, A FARMER

“Make bold moves toward your dreams each day, refuse to stop and nothing can stop you”- Hal Elrod

 I am so proud of my dear friend Harsha!

Thank you so much you are such an inspiration to everyone!          

Impermanence - Nothing is Permanent

When I come across the concept 'Impermanence' in one of the teaching videos of Buddhism, I immediately remembered the famous Shahruk...